Greetings from infinitheism.
Time and distance does not shadow the spirit of infinitheism to make a difference in the lives of people. Week before last we experienced the live webcast of the historic infinipath from Singapore since Mahatria was travelling to South East Asian countries and Africa.
The garden city of Bangalore will be receiving Mahatria for his next public discourse on 'Human Engineering' this weekend.
We have also announced 3 batches of our life transforming holistic development programs in Chennai & Bengaluru.
For more details read on.
Wishing you Most and more…
Team infinitheism
answers...
Q
We are married for 5 years. Of late our relationship has become dry. Is it really possible to love my wife the way I loved her on the first day till the last day of her or my life?
A
For the immature, prolonged usage of anything creates diminishing value. For the evolved, prolonged usage and practice of anything is the only way to make it Higher, Deeper, Beyond. So, if you are the evolved, the more and more you relate to a person, you will only find more and more reasons to love them. Thus, you grow in love. For the immature, familiarity breeds contempt. Hence, they fall in love.
To sustain the depth of a relationship, especially marriage, from the very beginning, relate to the person and not just the body. Observe each other's thinking, discuss personal values, standpoints and convictions; get sensitised to each other's feelings, develop emotional compatibility and take time to sit together in quietude to develop a spiritual connectivity. Respect the entirety of the person and relate to the whole person, not just the peripheral aspect of each other - the body. This will bring a lot of dignity to the relationship.
We live in the information age. So, the contemporary human consciousness in its very nature is intellectually curious. Without the husband and wife enjoying each other's intellectual company there will be no energy in the relationship. Talk about your agreements. Debate the disagreements. The only way to be interesting in a relationship is by discussing what the other person is interested in. Share your doubts. Share your observations. Ask for the other's point of view. Keep your face-to-face discussions as dynamic as you keep updating your Facebook pages. You should look forward to each other's company, and intellectual companionship is one of the prime ways.
The past is irrelevant. The present forms the building blocks. The future is very significant, for that is where the two of you will travel together. Discuss the future and grow in love. Just discussing day-to-day trifles will only make you fall in love. Talk future, talk dreams, talk ambitions, and resolve to play a part in each other's growth in a very objective and non-intrusive manner.
And most importantly, to keep the relationship romantic, rely on your intuitive ways of expressing love. Don't borrow ideas from movies. That's why it is dry. Trust your instincts. Fill your days with non-sexual touch. Romance is all about freshness. From looks to garments to environment to expressions to fragrance to tone of voice to gestures – there must be freshness. An element of surprise is the undercurrent of romance. Keep surprising yourself. Keep surprising your spouse. And, you will be surprised with what turns around. Bring life into your expressions and thus you will bring back life into your marriage.
Marriage: One relationship that's always under construction. So, keep it going…
Time and distance does not shadow the spirit of infinitheism to make a difference in the lives of people. Week before last we experienced the live webcast of the historic infinipath from Singapore since Mahatria was travelling to South East Asian countries and Africa.
The garden city of Bangalore will be receiving Mahatria for his next public discourse on 'Human Engineering' this weekend.
We have also announced 3 batches of our life transforming holistic development programs in Chennai & Bengaluru.
For more details read on.
Wishing you Most and more…
Team infinitheism
answers...
Q
We are married for 5 years. Of late our relationship has become dry. Is it really possible to love my wife the way I loved her on the first day till the last day of her or my life?
A
For the immature, prolonged usage of anything creates diminishing value. For the evolved, prolonged usage and practice of anything is the only way to make it Higher, Deeper, Beyond. So, if you are the evolved, the more and more you relate to a person, you will only find more and more reasons to love them. Thus, you grow in love. For the immature, familiarity breeds contempt. Hence, they fall in love.
To sustain the depth of a relationship, especially marriage, from the very beginning, relate to the person and not just the body. Observe each other's thinking, discuss personal values, standpoints and convictions; get sensitised to each other's feelings, develop emotional compatibility and take time to sit together in quietude to develop a spiritual connectivity. Respect the entirety of the person and relate to the whole person, not just the peripheral aspect of each other - the body. This will bring a lot of dignity to the relationship.
We live in the information age. So, the contemporary human consciousness in its very nature is intellectually curious. Without the husband and wife enjoying each other's intellectual company there will be no energy in the relationship. Talk about your agreements. Debate the disagreements. The only way to be interesting in a relationship is by discussing what the other person is interested in. Share your doubts. Share your observations. Ask for the other's point of view. Keep your face-to-face discussions as dynamic as you keep updating your Facebook pages. You should look forward to each other's company, and intellectual companionship is one of the prime ways.
The past is irrelevant. The present forms the building blocks. The future is very significant, for that is where the two of you will travel together. Discuss the future and grow in love. Just discussing day-to-day trifles will only make you fall in love. Talk future, talk dreams, talk ambitions, and resolve to play a part in each other's growth in a very objective and non-intrusive manner.
And most importantly, to keep the relationship romantic, rely on your intuitive ways of expressing love. Don't borrow ideas from movies. That's why it is dry. Trust your instincts. Fill your days with non-sexual touch. Romance is all about freshness. From looks to garments to environment to expressions to fragrance to tone of voice to gestures – there must be freshness. An element of surprise is the undercurrent of romance. Keep surprising yourself. Keep surprising your spouse. And, you will be surprised with what turns around. Bring life into your expressions and thus you will bring back life into your marriage.
Marriage: One relationship that's always under construction. So, keep it going…
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